For the bride who’d rather stay in
Girls Gone Mild is the hen do for the bride who doesn’t want to go clubbing, and isn’t afraid to admit it. Think silk pyjamas, slow mornings, painting sessions and gossiping until the prosecco runs out. This is a hen ‘don’t’ — no L-plates, no last-minute bar crawl, and no panic at 2 a.m. because someone lost their phone. It’s sleepover-coded, soft launch energy, and proof that low-key can still feel luxe. Paint, pamper, eat, repeat.
Decor
It’s all about cosy without looking chaotic. Think pastel tones, candles, fresh flowers and a few framed photos of the bride that make everyone go “awww.” The aim? Cottagecore sleepover hosted by a girl who owns a milk frother.
What you need for a soft hen do
Personalised with each guest’s name, stacked on pillows or tied with ribbon. A keepsake that doesn’t scream ‘novelty’.
Satin Eye Mask Favours
Pale pink roses, baby’s breath, and whatever’s in season. Pop them in vintage jars or bottles for a floral moment that doesn’t feel too ‘done’.
Fresh Flowers in Jam Jars
Cater to your pilates princess. Lay out matcha powder, whisks, almond milk, and cute glassware for a chic start to the day. Add a handwritten “you’re glowing” sign.
DIY Matcha Bar
Mini canvases, paint palettes and printed-out reference photos of the groom (or your favourite golden retriever). Chaos, but with good lighting.
Painting Setup
Stacked like a spa retreat. Go for muted tones (blush, ivory, sage). Add a welcome card or note from the bride.
Slippers & Robes
Layer soft lighting around the space — no harsh LEDs. You want glow, not glare.
Candlelight & Fairy Lights
What To Do
These games aren’t about dares or dancing — they’re about connection, comfort, and chaos in an oat-milk-soft kind of way. You’ll wake up rested and slightly wine-flushed.
But we’ve also got a few kickers perfect for the Western theme.
Calm, curated, slightly unhinged
Get the free girls gone mild templates.
Set up mini canvases, grab some paint, and attempt to immortalise the groom (or celebrity crush) in acrylic. Hilarious and messy in the best way. Bride picks her favourite and the winner gets bragging rights — and the last chocolate truffle.
PAINT THE GROOM
Optional, but fun. A ten-minute gentle stretch in your matching PJs, followed by sipping rosé while lying on the floor and overthinking. Peak wellness.
YOGA OR STRETCH & SIP
Classic pillow talk, but printed. Mix heartfelt prompts with chaotic hypotheticals like “Which ex would the bride least want to bump into tonight?” or “Who would survive longest in a zombie apocalypse?” Great chat, better content.
SLEEPOVER QUESTION CARDS
What To Wear
You’re staying in — but you’re still serving. Daytime is soft knit co-ords, wrap sets, or that oversized shirt that *looks* effortless but was strategically steamed. Evenings are for matching pyjamas (Sleeper feather-trimmed sets if the budget allows), fluffy socks, and slicked-back buns. Basically, imagine the chicest girl you know hosted a hen in a Cotswolds cottage and told everyone to wear neutrals.
Basic rules for *Girls Gone Mild*: if you’re going out, you're not. This is about matching pyjamas, loose hair, and outfits that whisper “I brought my own pillow.” The best thing you can do? Send a moodboard in advance so no one shows up in a slogan tee from 2012.
THIS IS A SUBHEADING
The Bride
This is her spa-core moment. A matching set — feather-trimmed if she’s extra, silky if she’s chic. Add a robe, a claw clip, and a rosé that refills itself. Hair is either slicked or soft. Makeup? Maybe. It’s less about standing out and more about glowing quietly. Bonus points for initials embroidered on the pocket or a sleep mask that says “bride off duty.” The vibe is luxury sleepover — no novelty sashes, no regrets, and definitely no alarms.
SHOP THE LOOK
Oscar De Larenta
£435
Oscar De Larenta
£435
Oscar De Larenta
£435
Oscar De Larenta
£435
Oscar De Larenta
£435
The GUESTS
You’re going for sleepover, but make it Pinterest. Pyjamas in soft tones — ivory, blush, muted green — or matching sets if you’ve committed. Think feather cuffs, cute collars, and fuzzy socks that feel like a warm hug. For daytime? Knit co-ords, cashmere joggers, oversized shirts you can pretend are styled. Jewellery is minimal, maybe a gold hoop. Hair goes in a bun or a plait. The goal is to look good in the group photo and be comfortable by 3 p.m. when everyone’s on the sofa with face masks and hummus. If you wouldn’t wear it to an aesthetic Cotswolds cottage, it’s out. And no one’s allowed a hen night t-shirt that says “bride tribe” in glitter font. That’s a direct violation of the mild agreement.
SHOP THE LOOK
Oscar De Larenta
£435
Oscar De Larenta
£435
Oscar De Larenta
£435
Oscar De Larenta
£435
Oscar De Larenta
£435
Girls Gone Mild
Our free theme kit has everything you need to pull off a hen that’ll have everyone saying, Yeehaw! Inside: editable invites, printable games, moodboards, and the planning templates to help you pull off a hen that feels more luxury retreat than lost weekend.