Her love language? Linguine.
For the bride who’s fluent in flirtation, orders red wine before asking the vintage, and once cried over a man in Positano — That’s Amore! is a theme made for her. It’s romantic, a little bit indulgent, and effortlessly chic. Picture an Italian courtyard dinner, Aperol spritz in hand, “Volare” playing softly in the background, and a group of hens who understand the assignment: romance-core, but make it practical. Perfect for destination hens or hosting the Italian fantasy at home, complete with red-checkered tablecloths and candlelight that flickers until midnight. Bonus points for group photos that look like an advert for olive oil.
Decor
The goal: Tuscan countryside meets Notting Hill Airbnb. You want natural materials, terracotta touches, and romantic lighting. Fresh herbs in pots, citrus in bowls, and a menu handwritten in faux-Italian cursive.
HOW TO DECORATE FOR AN ITALIAN DO
Classic, not cliché. Add white plates, gold cutlery and a few tapered candles. It’s giving trattoria — and it photographs beautifully.
Gingham tablecloth
Basil, rosemary, thyme — use potted herbs instead of flowers. Tie with twine, and encourage hens to take them home.
Fresh herbs as centerpieces
Stock with Aperol, Campari, soda, oranges, and olives. Label everything in Italian (badly). Add some glassware and you’ve got a photo op and a pre-dinner ritual.
Aperitivo cart
Print your own “bride’s vintage” labels and stick them on supermarket bottles. Bonus: swap out the corks for heart-shaped stoppers.
Custom wine labels
Scatter whole lemons in wooden crates or ceramic bowls. Add a red-and-white tea towel and you’ve nailed the Amalfi effect.
Lemon crate styling
If you're outside, string up fairy lights. If not, cluster tall candlesticks indoors and dim the lights. It’s the glow that sells it.
Al fresco candlelight setup
What To Do
For a bride who wants more flirt than fear factor, we’re keeping it charming — with a hint of drama. This is a love story, not a wild night in Magaluf.
But we’ve also got a few kickers perfect for the Western theme.
Yeehaw, It’s Game Time
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Hens draw dares from a pasta bowl. If they won’t do it — a sip of Chianti. If they will? A story to tell forever. Dares range from serenading a stranger to speaking only in Italian phrases.
SPAGHETTI STAKES
Each hen adds a dish to the “wedding tasting menu” — but the categories are made up. Starters: awkward ex stories. Mains: first date horror stories. Dessert: most romantic moment ever.
FILL IN THE MENU
This will only work if you’re staying in a fairly substantial AirBnB for your hen do, but it will be the talk of the weekend if you manage to pull it off. After a few tequilas, the girls won’t know what has hit them, and the bride will be blown over by his moves (potentially). Sure fire way to get everyone giggling.
COOKING CLASS
What To Wear
Basic rules for That’s Amore!: it’s linen, it’s romantic, and it’s ready for a slow-motion photo on cobblestones. No sashes, no sequins. Just outfits worthy of a European summer.
THIS IS A SUBHEADING
The Bride
Linen, silk, or lace — the kind of white dress that flutters when you walk. Strapless, puff-sleeved, maybe with a bow. Pair it with gold earrings, soft makeup, and something red: a lip, a shoe, or your wine glass. Hair up in a bun or soft waves pinned with something pearly. This is not a club outfit — it’s your love story outfit. Think Sofia Richie in Ravello, not Love Island in Mayfair.
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The GUESTS
Think olive-toned, romantic neutrals, or rich reds. Midi dresses, bandeau tops, silky sets, or an open shirt over a dress. Flat sandals or mules. Nothing too polished — we’re aiming for effortless. Add gold hoops, tousled hair, and you’re done. For daytime, switch to oversized sunglasses, headscarves, or a strappy top with linen trousers. It should look like you could be in an Aperol ad. Bonus points if someone shows up in vintage Dolce.
SHOP THE LOOK
Oscar De Larenta
£435
Oscar De Larenta
£435
Oscar De Larenta
£435
Oscar De Larenta
£435
Oscar De Larenta
£435
That's Amore!
Everything you need to plan a hen do with pasta, passion and just the right amount of drama. Inside: editable invites, printable games, outfit moodboards and planning templates.